Sunday, May 3, 2015

A Cornucopia of Colors

On a beautiful sunny day like today, why not suddenly talk about skin color, race, and adoption?:

S: I have sunscreen on my skin so it doesn't burn and turn red or turn brown or turn dark like K___ and N___ (her friends at preschool).

Laura: You'll never have dark skin like K___ and N___ because their parents have skin that color.

S: No, they don't, because when their parents pick them up every day, their skin is light colored.

Laura: That's because their parents adopted them. They have two sets of parents...

Sophia and Laura continue to talk about other adopted friends and their parents' skin colors for a bit, then Laura informs her that Daddy's skin color is darker than Grandpa's because Grandpa adopted Daddy...

Laura: And when the baby's born, she will have skin like yours: darker than mine and lighter than Daddy's because she's a mix of me and Daddy.

S: I'm adopted, too!

Laura: No, you're not adopted, honey.

S: Oh. (she says with a disappointed look, but then a thought occurs to her) Oh, it's like vegetables. 

Laura: How is it like vegetables?

S: When we're at the store and we see vegetables with different colors, they have different parents.

Laura: Yes! Like the tomatoes we were looking at today were purple and red and yellow...

(Yes! We're all just a mixed-up bunch of fruits and veggies, with some nuts thrown in to keep things interesting ; )